Job: Through loss, pain and loneliness

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Life is filled with moments of joy and moments of hardship. At times, suffering can feel overwhelming, and we may question why we experience pain and loss. However, the story of Job in the Bible provides a powerful example of certainty and endurance. Job’s trials reveal God’s sovereignty, strength and ultimate faithfulness, demonstrating that even in our darkest moments, we can trust His divine plan. Reflecting on Job’s experiences and my journey, I have realised that God’s promises remain steadfast, offering comfort in loss, strength in suffering and redemption in times of doubt.

Imagine losing everything you have worked for in a single moment. Job, a righteous man, faced unimaginable loss when he lost his wealth, children and health. Yet, instead of cursing God, he chose to worship Him, declaring in Job 1:21, “I came naked from my mother’s womb, and I will be naked when I leave. The Lord gave me what I had, and the Lord has taken it away. Praise the name of the Lord!” 

Job’s response reflects an unshakable reliance on God’s power, even when everything was taken from him. 

I experienced a similar grief when I lost my grandmother while I was far from home. My family and I had planned a trip to Australia from Samoa at the end of January 2022, and before we left, my grandmother, who was in good health, tearfully told us that she feared she might never see us again. We reassured her that we would return. However, just two to three weeks into our trip, we received the heartbreaking news that she had passed away on New Year’s Day. I remember the pain and confusion that overwhelmed me, questioning why this had to happen while I was away. 

Like Job, I struggled to understand the loss. Although I mourned, I gradually understood that God’s plan extends beyond my limited perspective. I saw He was still present, providing comfort, strength and unexpected blessings over time. Though I didn’t have all the answers, I began to trust that His purpose was greater than what I could see at that moment. God’s sovereignty assures us that nothing happens outside of His knowledge and ultimate plan, and even in hardship, He is working for our good. Romans 8:28 reminds us, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” Even in our losses, we can trust that God’s ultimate plan is for our good.

Pain can break even the strongest individuals. Job not only lost his wealth and family but his physical health was also afflicted with painful sores. It became so intense that his wife urged him to curse God and die (Job 2:9). Yet, despite his unbearable pain, Job remained steadfast, replying, “Should we accept only good things from the hand of God and never anything bad?” (Job 2:10). His response serves as a reminder that our faith should not waver based on circumstances. 

In my own life, I have struggled with feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt, particularly in my academic journey. Throughout high school, I was highly competitive, pushing myself to achieve excellence. I studied diligently, aiming to be at the top. However, there were times when I fell short of my expectations. I blamed God when I did not receive the results I had hoped for, questioning why my efforts did not yield the success I desired. Over time, I realised that my understanding was limited. Proverbs 3:5,6 teaches us to “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” 

My academic struggles were not a sign of failure but an opportunity to trust God’s wisdom and guidance. Just as Job remained true despite his misery, His promise to guide us is unwavering, and He always provides what we need when we surrender our struggles to Him. 

One of the most painful aspects of Job’s hardships was the isolation he experienced. Instead of comforting him, his friends accused him of wrongdoing and believed his despair was a punishment for sin. In Job 19:2, he cried, “How long will you torture me? How long will you try to crush me with your words?” Even in his despair, Job refused to abandon his trust in God’s justice and questioned in Job 21:7, “Why do the wicked prosper, growing old and powerful?” Job’s honest questioning teaches us that doubt is not a sign of weakness but a natural part of faith. 

I, too, have faced moments of doubt and disappointment. During high school, I longed to belong to a group of friends who seemed inseparable. I admired their intelligence and hoped to be part of that bond. However, over time, I didn’t fit in, and no matter how much I tried, their conversations often felt beyond my reach. At first, I convinced myself that if I worked harder to keep up or prove myself, I would eventually be accepted. But the more I tried, the more isolated I felt. They were my only friends, and I had no one else to turn to. That loneliness weighed heavily, just like Job must have felt when his friends turned away from him in his time of need. 

Additionally, my academic disappointments tested my devotion. After graduating from high school in 2023, I faced the challenge of getting into university. I desperately wanted to pursue higher education, but each passing day without good news made my faith waver. I began to doubt whether God had a plan for me. But just when I had given up hope, I received a call informing me that I could study at Avondale University if I passed the entry examination. By God’s grace, I passed and am now pursuing a full-time bachelor degree. Hebrews 11:1 reminds us, “Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.” 

My journey to university was a testament to God’s faithfulness. He provided a way when I saw none. Job’s story teaches us that redemption comes in God’s perfect timing. Ultimately, God restored Job’s fortunes, giving him twice as much as before (Job 42:10). 

Although we may not always see immediate answers, we can trust that God is always working behind the scenes. His plans may unfold in ways we do not expect, blessing us even when we don’t see the full picture. His greatest promise extends beyond this life—an eternity with Him, where every trial will be redeemed, and every sorrow replaced with joy.

While we may not always understand His ways now, we can rest assured that He is preparing something far greater than we can imagine.

Job’s story is one of perseverance, faith and divine restoration. Reflecting on my life, I have seen God’s hand at work, even when I did not understand His plan. As we face hardships, we must remember that suffering does not mean abandonment. Rather, it is an opportunity to draw closer to God, trust His promises and rest in His unfailing love. Just as He remained with Job through every trial, He remains with us, guiding, strengthening and restoring what we have lost. 

We may not always understand His ways, but we can trust His heart. Our trials refine and strengthen our beliefs, shaping us into more devoted followers of Christ, deeply rooted in His eternal love.


Francine Sione Ausage is a second-year English and History student at Avondale University. 

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